Happiness after divorce starts here

Helen Keller said when “one door of happiness closes another one opens”

but often we look so LONG at the closed door that we do not see the one which has been opened for us.  By your choosing to take this program, you have walked through that open door.

Congratulations! Congratulations for saying yes to yourself; for saying yes to happiness; for saying yes to your life as YOU want it to be.

It is my total privilege to support you on your journey.

By diligently doing the practises in your program and attending the coaching sessions each week, you will grow more self-confident, more self assured and eventually put behind  you the sadness, the pain, the anger and the disappointment that you are now experiencing from the breakup of your marriage.

You may not realize it right now  but this is the very best time to disengage with the negativity of your break up and to take decisive steps to live your new life, according to YOUR terms.  You may even learn to be a little bit more selfish.  Only when you take care of yourself first can you effectively take care of others .  As they say in the airline industry if the oxygen mask comes down, you use it on yourself first before helping others because if you don’t take care of yourself first, you may be unable to help anyone else.

As women we tend to be nurturers, and we are always looking out for others - sometimes to our own detriment. I am guessing that in your marriage, you did put the needs of your husband and your children first, leaving yourself with hardly enough energy to give to yourself. It is no wonder why we have feelings of resentment when the marriage is no more.

But I digress,  our focus in this program is not to reflect on the wrongs that have been done to us. It is instead about picking ourselves up, dusting ourselves off and moving on - not just in any direction but in a purposeful way.

This program has been designed, especially to help you do that.

In order to get the optimum results from this program, you are   not only required to review the carefully prepared sessions each week, and to perform the practices outlined in the sessions, it is vitally important to show up and  engage fully in the live coaching call each week.  I want you to succeed.  Your results will be governed by the actions you take.

As you will have heard before now, I was in your shoes. My recovery from my two divorces were pain-stakingly slow because I had no one to guide me or to show me the way.  I had to search out many different personal development mentors who helped me to grow (not just go) through my divorce.  Ultimately my self-confidence grew, I re-discovered my self-worth, I accepted that ny opinions mattered and that I could decide for myself what I wanted for my life and how I was going to be as a person.

I am a much better version of myself now than I was at the time I was going through my divorce. 

I want the same results for you. I have condensed and packaged the most helpful parts of my own experience and the wisdom of my mentors into this program to help you grow through your divorce.

As a divorce lawyer, I have seen too many times where individuals have allowed their emotional pain to influence their decisions.  Not only does emotional pain lead us to make bad legal decisions. They can also lead us to make bad life choices.

Divorce often makes us feel like we’re broken up into so many little pieces that we cannot be put back together again. The purpose of this program is not just to put you back together again, but to put you back together even better than you were before. 

Your mission, with my help, support and guidance is to use your divorce to become your best you.

Let’s begin our journey together!